When Lily have difficult in her life,she always turn to her parents.She thinks that it is important to listen to others.We can always see girls solve their problems in this way.Maybe it is the best way for them in some situations,but I think that we all need to learn to be independence.
Joe usually depends on himself when he have a problem.He thinks that others can only give you some advice,but it is you yourself who can solve your own problem.This kind of people have a lot of confidence in themselves.Sometimes they even refuse to get help from others.That's no need.I think that we should listen to others' suggestions and make our own judgement.Then,we can solve the problem in a better way.
Some people,like Steve,refuse to face their trouble when they really in.They always hide from the real life.I don't think it's a good way to solve problems.Some of the troubles we may hide from,but most we can't.So we should face our troulbe,find way to solve it.Then we can make a progress.