2、利用自我提醒,暗示自己在毅力訓練上要比別人付出更大的努力。
3.堅持到底,不要半途而廢。
4.排除幹擾。專心學習,不受幹擾。
5.有組織的計劃。為目標制定實施計劃。
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興趣:興趣往往很容易啟動,往往是新鮮感或者自己的喜愛。無聊了怎麽辦?短時間比較好,持續幾天,感覺還不錯。長時間該怎麽辦?若幹年後,我再談意義。
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意義:與興趣相比,意義給我們的是成就感。小小的突破和成就給了我們壹種成就感,對我們來說更有堅持的意義。隨著我們水平的提高,我們會更加熱愛,使命感會讓我們堅持的更久。
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適合度:再來說說適合度。做自己適合的事情,真的是壹條捷徑。妳會壹路順風順水,擁有別人羨慕的才華。快速的進步會帶來豐富的成就感。妳跑得比別人快,飛得比別人高,這就要求我們理性選擇自己想從事的職業。
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獎勵:失去興趣,意誌不夠堅定的時候怎麽辦?獎勵出現了。在胡蘿蔔的幫助下,我們不僅要設定自己想要的目標,還要把握好度。壹般來說,難度和獎勵的豐富程度成正比。
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環境:環境也影響我們的堅持。我們的朋友圈,我們的房間裝修裝飾,我們的生活工作安排,我們看的電視,看的電影,玩的遊戲,都是環境。我們做什麽呢我們要為自己的堅持創造環境,和選擇交朋友,為堅持選擇生活。
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競爭夥伴:我們都離不開朋友,不是嗎?我們身邊總有各種各樣的人,影響著我們,也影響著他們。為妳的堅持尋找壹個有競爭力的夥伴,最好是實力相近,誌同道合的人。共同進步,共同發展,會帶來很多動力。
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習慣:把堅持變成習慣,我們可以每天安排壹個特定的時間做壹件事,時間長了就會變成習慣。習慣本身就是壹種動力,把我們想堅持的事情變成壹種習慣,讓堅持變得更容易。
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做壹個開頭的準備活動:很多人有拖延癥的心理,很多人傾向於安逸,逃避工作。其實很多事情並沒有我們想象的那麽難。有時候我們需要的只是壹個開始,而讓我們更好的開始往往是讓自己熱身。比如讀書前,熱身時,演講前,在座位上讀幾句,讓自己進入狀態。
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